As a girl, it almost feels like I was born with a natural tendency to dream and fantasize about my future. I’m sure that’s true of most people—not just young girls. And I wouldn’t say that’s a bad thing. It’s fun to dream about our careers, who we’re going to marry, what life will look like in ten years, or who will become lifelong friends. The list goes on and on. Dreaming gives us something to think about when we can’t sleep at night. But it can also become consuming. Befor